In English

Welcome to Excess Club

Excess Club is a BDSM club located in Copenhagen, Denmark. If you are of legal age in your country, please read the following abbreviated version of our Danish website to learn more about us.

What is Excess Club?

Excess Club is private BDSM club where people who enjoy BDSM, fetishes and erotic dominance can meet in a intimate atmosphere free from prejudice. Excess Club is a members-only club where BDSM players meet and enjoy erotic experiences and explore their kinky fantasies in an atmosphere of safety and respect.  The club has a sexy and stylish ambience that encourages play, friendship and flirting, intense dominance and extreme passion.

We are located in outer Copenhagen, in 200 square meters playroms including a lounge area, a seperate smoking area, dungeon area, a more private room and lots of equipment and bondage opportunites.

Membership is selective; you have to go through our application process (see below) to ensure sincerity, security and compatibility with the ambience of the club. At an introductory meeting, all members sign our codex

Who are the members ?
Excess Club has members between the ages of 18 to 70 from many different social groups. We meet and are united in our interest in and commitment to erotic dominance. Some members are very experienced and some are newcomers, who have only played privately. Some define themselves as Goth, Queer, Swingers or fetishists while others see themselves exclusively as sadomasochists. Some are heterosexual, others identify themselves as bi-, homo-, trans-, pan-sexual or queer.

Who can apply to Excess Club?
• Everyone over 18 years of age can apply for membership 
• All genders: men, women and transsexuals.  
• Dominants, submissives and switchers. 
• Singles and couples.

You don’t have to have a lot of experience of S&M, but we prefer that you have a little. Write to us and ask if you are in any doubt. Please note that Excess is only looking for members who will visit the club regularly – and the application porocess can take some time – so casual travellers or tourists may want to look at other clubs.

What is the difference between Excess Club and other BDSM clubs?

Here are a few key words about what we think we offer that is different.

Exclusivity: Excess Club doesn’t accept everyone as members. We think it is important that all new members are committed to the values described in these pages. You can’t just come in off the street and join.

Confidentiality: Excess Club sets high standards for discretion; gossip and intrigues are not allowed.

No prejudices: In Excess Club there is no right or wrong way to practice S&M. Our members are all different and include dominants and submissives, switchers and bisexuals, each with differing types of desires – but they are all united in playing games of dominance.

Non-commercial: The cost of membership is the same for all and all those who help with running the club do so voluntarily.

An intimate environment: In Excess Club we meet each other as people and know each other by our first names, not nicknames or chat-names.

Dresscode: Excess Club expects members to dress in such a way that they contribute to the erotic mood.
All clubs are different – choose the one that suits you best!

What is the dresscode?

Everyone should make an effort to get dressed up. It doesn’t have to be hardcore fetish or S&M (although of course you are very welcome to!), but you should not come in “ordinary” clothes, towels or sandals.
Excess Club welcomes:
• Classic evening dress, suits, ladies in evening dress 
• S&M gear 
• Leather, PVC, rubber 
• Chains 
• Uniforms (erotic) 
• Anything erotic – or nothing (come naked)

What sorts of actvities does Excess Club have?

Excess Club has kinky club nights every week. Most evenings are open for all members, with or without a special them,. Other evenings there may be special events and ritual evenings.

Here are a few examples from the kinky calendar: 
• Japanese bondage –lessons in how to do it and bondage games
• Domina events – slaves serve the all-powerful goddesses ..
• Film screenings – films with S&M themes to stimulate …
• Control Night – a special group BDSM event where submission is absolute …
• Fallic Feasts – sexually submissive women live out their fantasies with a group of dominat men 
• Rubber Workshops and Masterclasses, sharing and teaching kinky arts and crafts 
• Excess evenings – lounge atmosphere with chat, flirting and the unforeseeable…
• Wolfing Hour  – weekday evenings with lots of activity
• Gummi Galore – The more rubber the better
• Fetish events, parties with special dresscodes, e,g, uniforms, boots and/or strap-ons …
• … lounge nights, other theme evenings and much more …

What does membership cost?

Membership subscription is DKK 215 per month. The fee is paid quarterly in advance.
Special arrangements can be made for members who temporarily find themselves in economic difficulties.

Prices in the bar are kept reasonable. Activities are mostly free, although there may be a fee for some special events. No one earns any money from Excess Club. Men and women pay the same.

How do I apply for membership?

If you like what you have read on this homepage and you are over 18 years of age, then you are welcome to apply for membership.

In your application you should describe yourself and some of the thoughts and experiences you have in relation to S&M. You can also, if you wish to, write about what you hope to experience in Excess Club and if you know someone who is a member or in the S&M fraternity whom we may contact. If you are a couple applying together, remember to describe yourselves both as individuals and as a couple.

If it is difficult to get started, then you can use the following questions for inspiration:
• Yourself: your age, gender and job. Are you in any form of relationship? 
• Your experience of S&M: What have you done? Are you S, M, switch or perhaps a little undecided (like so many others)? Have you been active at, for example Manifest, on-line networks or other clubs? You can also refer to S&M sites on the Internet. 
• Fascination: What especially turns you on, for example Japanese bondage, breath control or anal sex? 
• The future: Is there something in your sex life that you hope the future will bring? And what do you hope to get out of being a member of Excess Club?

We know that it feels a bit indiscreet to have to expose your self in writing to someone you don’t know. But it is important for us to know a bit about you in order to make a judgement.

Three of Excess Club’s members are entrusted with the job of receiving enquiries and applications. Everything that you write will be treated with 100% confidentiality and respect. If you have any questions or feedback or if you wish to apply for membership, write to us at

What is the intro procedure?

Once we have received your application we will reply, possibly with further questions. We aim to reply within 14 days of receiving your application. Excess Club is an exclusive club and so not everyone can be a member. Some will receive a provisional acceptance, others a thank you for applying.

If your application receives a provisional acceptance, then you will be invited to an intro meeting. Here two hosts from Excess Club will tell you a little about the club and will want to hear about you. There may be up to eight applicants at such an evening, which is informal but confidential. Within a week of the meeting you will get a final answer.

Please note that the introduction procedure is mutually confidential. We accept your information with complete security and respect and we expect the same of applicants. Remember also that you may receive a friendly rejection and that because such decisions are often made intuitively, we can not always give reasons.

Through these procedures, we aim to create an exclusive, intimate and secure club, which we are delighted to share with others – to flirt, for friendship and exciting S&M.

We look forward to hearing from you!

Excess Club